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Kathy-27/F/Jacksonville, FL

I have been very fortunate to have known several people all my life who sucked their thumbs including several of my sisters. Of my 10 sisters and 4 brothers, 7 of the girls (myself included) have sucked and still suck their thumbs. I am the most frequent and consistent thumbsucker in my family though.

I suck my thumb all the time except in front of strangers, the camera, or in public (unless I forget where I am, usually in the car). I have also known other non-family members who sucked their thumbs and still do. My best friend and I used to suck our thumbs together so much that people started calling us twins.

I cannot think of any particularly embarrassing situations that I have been in. I have been blessed to have been around people who understood and accepted. Even people from church!!

My parents tried to stop us. I went through the bitter nail polish, tying my thumb with cloth, (although I always ended up biting the cloth off in my sleep), band-aids, (sucked through it until it fell off), threats, promises, and attempts to embarrass. The thumb always won out. I did try to stop on my own by trying to pick up other habits like sucking my tongue or chewing gum. These failed too.

I have only just gotten comfortable with sucking my thumb in front of my boyfriend-and not a moment too soon as we just moved in together. He has never said anything about and usually likes to rub my back when we're in bed and I'm sucking my thumb. I no longer care what people think about it, although I do avoid doing it in public.

Once I get to know someone, I usually feel comfortable enough to reveal my secret to them and most are ok with it. If they aren't comfortable with it, I avoid sucking it in front of them. As for dental consequences, I have had little if any, even though I usually fall asleep with my thumb in my mouth. My dentist attributes this to the fact that I suck my thumb way in the back of my mouth and not behind my front teeth. I am a happy, well adjusted adult thumbsucker and proud of it. I am pleased to have found this web site and my fellow adult thumbsuckers.


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Suzy, age 33, from Atlanta, Georgia, has sucked her fingers all her life. Her teeth are crooked and there’s been no affect on her fingers. She indulges to sleep, while studying, watching TV, reading, driving, during sex and masturbation, but only when alone, more than 10 hours/day. Her parents didn’t care. To her, it’s a habit that’s erotic, feels good and imparts security. “I have a specific, soft T-shirt. I definitely have to have my T-shirt to make it work.” She wasn’t breast fed, didn’t use a pacifier, never smoked, is college educated, just right in weight, is white, born 3rd of 3, is heterosexual, single, doesn’t feel that it makes it difficult to have a relationship and heard of this site from another place on the Net.

“It is common knowledge in my immediate family that I suck my fingers. “I have a new niece who is starting to suck her fingers. I have been ‘lovingly’ blamed for passing the trait.

“I am truly amazed to have stumbled onto this site.

“The olfactory component is integral. I find it to be truly meditative.

“Once I had a very powerful ‘womb-flashback’ because of a particular smell while sucking my fingers. My mom has always told me that I was sucking my fingers when I was born. Regarding significant others:

“I don’t typically tell them despite the fact that it continues and is necessary for me to sleep.


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Lisa, age 21, from California, has sucked both her thumbs all her life. Her teeth are mildly bucked with no affect on her thumb. She indulges while studying, watching TV, reading, during sex and masturbation and with her family present. Her parents teased, used bitter solutions, told people and finally understood and didn’t care. To her, it’s a habit that feels good, imparting security. She places a finger over her nose and “I take a piece of hair and twirl it with my fingers.” She wasn’t breast fed, didn’t use a pacifier, is a smoker, had a high school education, is white, an only child, is bisexual and heard about this site from the show “Extra”.


Name: jeff

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Hello all..I am a finger sucker from eastern pa. Would love to hear from people in the area/ love to hear stories/ embarrassed moments etc. Will return stories back. Please email me, Jeff


Time: Mon, 22-Feb-1999

Hello my name is Jon I’m 23 and I live in upstate NY.

I have always sucked my thumb and still have the remains of my baby blanket although it is in tattered and sad shape. His name is kiki and I sleep with him every night.

My thumb sucking habit has been a source of great anxiety for me for years. Especially breaching the subject to a lover or girlfriend it can be very embarrassing and sometimes its kept a secret all together. I would love to find a girl that sucked her thumb so I wouldn't have to feel self conscious about it I have always joked that if thumb sucking was socially acceptable I would quit smoking.

I have come to accept the fact that I will probably always suck my thumb and am fine with it but it really sucks that this harmless, docile habit is so ridiculed. I am relieved to find this website and if anyone would like to share their thoughts you can email me at my AOL screen name Jon7908@aol.com.

Happy sucking LOL. Sincere to point of absurdity.


Well, I'll be Darn!

Wed, 07 Jul 1999

Travis Hanson, send e-mail to: hihwrya@hotmail.com

Hi Everyone! Well, guess I'm not a Freak after all! I'm a 48 year old married man that, Oh my, this could be difficult, I suck my thumb, and I really enjoy it! There is nothing like it unless you understand.... but it has always been THE most relaxing input that this Guy has ever had....! I like to take a suck when I go to bed, of course.... That's where I get busted..... I fall asleeep with my thumb in my mouth ... but also after a swim in a pool... love the clorination smell on my hand I guess! Or after washing my hands with some nice smelling soap ... what bliss! Well, maybe I am a Freak after all -- after reading my own words! There is THE problem... it's hard to explain this! I have always sucked my thumb. No, My wife doesn't know, she would give me a bunch of Noise. No teeth problems... no weight problems.. no thumbnail problems... Just not enough time to sit in front of the TV and suck in a good movie! It is so exciting to see that there are others like me --- And, a good suck does have some advantages! If the Internet Connection ur on is loading a little slow, how many of you have gotten a little frustrated waiting for a page to load and just stuck a thumb in Ur mouth, and really didn't care how long that page was gonna take!!!! Well, anyway, thanks for posting a site for us, and just wanted U to know that it's swell knowing that we're not really alone!!! P.S. Please stick this e-mail into the pen-pals section 'cause I'm having trouble getting it to send without it going into my OUTBOX folder. SEE? It's an underground world............. Trevor


Kristina, age 19, from Minnesota, has sucked her right thumb all her life. Her teeth are mildly bucked but there’s been no affect on her thumb. She indulges to sleep, while watching TV and only when alone. Her parents scolded, spanked and used bitter solution. For her, it’s just a habit she can’t quit. She doesn’t place a finger over her nose but, instead, “twirl my hair”. She wasn’t breastfed, used a pacifier, never smoked, never knew other ATSers, is college educated, overweight, white, heterosexual, born 1st of 3 children and heard about this site from the show Extra. buffalofish@hotmail.com


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Michelle, age 20, from Miami, Florida, has sucked her right thumb all her life. Her teeth are mildly bucked and her thumb looks different. She indulges to sleep, while studying, watching TV, anywhere, even in public. Her parents teased her, used bitter solution, but finally understood. For her it’s a habit that feels good, engendering a sense of security. She places a finger over her nose and uses a pillow. She was breastfed, didn’t use a pacifier, never smoked and has known other ATSers, is college educated, just right in weight, Latino, born 1st of 2 children, is heterosexual and heard about this site via a search engine.

“I have a little pillow that I touch while sucking my thumb.”

“My mom used to suck her thumb, mostly to go to sleep though.

“I really don’t care what people say, but I hate the reaction or comment, ‘you suck your thumb?’, especially wnen they just saw me do it, or ‘what does it tast like?’, uhhh, nothing! But, since I’m very open about it, I don’t get embarressed by it unless it turns into a BIG subject of WHY I suck my thumb!

Jody, age 22, from Florida, has sucked her left thumb all her life. She has never needed braces but her thumb has red marks on it. Her thumbnail is worn or has marks and looks different. She indulges as she goes to sleep, while watching TV, while reading and with her family. Her parents scolded, spanked, teased and used bitter solutions to try to stop her. For her it's just a habit, it feels good. She places a finger over her nose. He wasn't breast fed, didn't use a pacifier, is not a smoker and never knew another adult thumb sucker. She has a High School education, is very overweight, white and is birth #2 of 3 siblings.

"When I was 16 I had my wisdom teeth pulled and was doped up on medication. My boyfriend, now my husband, walked in and caught me. A year after we were married I confessed I did it. He doesn't mind.

"I used a blanket until I was 10 but never gave up the thumb. I use it to relax and to sleep. I do the finger over my nose thing and the rubbing of my nose.

"I have been married for four years and my husband accepts it 100%. My thumbnail is really short and the thumb is a lot smoother. I am really glad to know I am not the only adult thumbsucker out there.

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Jen, age 29, from East Coast USA, has sucked her left thumb all her life. Her teeth are mildly bucked and her thumb looks different. She indulges to sleep, while watching TV, reading and with her family. Her parents have been understanding. She does it to feel good and secure, having experienced trauma. She places her finger over her nose. She was breast fed, smokes, college educated, just right in weight, is white and born 2nd of 2 children.

“I have an old teddy bear that I stroke while I suck my thumb.

“Last night I fell asleep with the TV on and woke up at 4am, opened my eyes and saw a story on thumbsucking on Extra! I was happily sucking away, half asleep, wondering if I was dreaming. When I woke up today, I had to check out this website which was briefly mentioned in the story. Cool Site!

“I don’t actually suck, but rather place it in my mouth, against the roof, and my tongue does all the work. Does anyone else have this phenomena, where if you put your thumb against the roof of your mouth, your tongue starts to undulate? “I did have braces when I was 13 until I was 17, but never wore the rubber bands that would’ve corrected my bite. So I ended up with slightly bucked teeth and an open bite. I just recently had all my teeth capped and think I should probably stop or cut down sucking now so my caps aren’t affected.

“I am married, and openly suck my thumb in front of my husband and my mother. I also opening sucked in front of various roommates in college, etc. I’m not ashamed of it, it is so comforting and makes me feel safe and happy.

“If anyone thinks it’s weird, well, that’s their problem, isn’t it? My husband now will occasionally suck his thumb if he is sad or upset, ha!

“Anyway, I’d love to hear from any other happy thumb suckers out there! Email me! IKelly8902@aol.com


Adrian, age 31, from Missouri, has sucked both his thumbs all his life. He needed braces but it didn’t affect his thumb. He indulges to sleep, while watching TV, during sex and during masturbation. His parents were understanding. He does it because it feels erotic and gives him a sense of security. He wasn’t breast fed, used a pacifier, never smoked, never knew of other ATSers, is college educated, just right in weight, is an American Indian and was born 2nd of 2 children.

“I hold onto my teddy bear as I suck my thumb.” dare70@aol.com


Jen, age 22, from Minnesota, has sucked her left thumb since after age 7. Her teeth never needed braces but she has a thumb callus. She indulges to sleep, with her friends, but otherwise only when alone or while having sex and while masturbating. Her parents scolded, spanked, grounded and teased, but eventually didn’t care. She does it from trauma and because if feels good and gives her a feeling of security. She places a finger over her nose. She was breast fed, used a pacifier, never smoked, has known other ATSers, is college educated, overweight, white and has 4 half siblings, unknown where she ranks in order of birth.

“I use a special teddy bear given to me by my best friend. The other adult thumb suckers that she knows “are friends of mine and I have been there when they are upset. Instead of laughing, I told them I did it too. Now it’s something we share.

“My thumb sucking experiences I’ve shared with my best friend and that person would kill me if I told.

“I like the pen pal section. It helps to know we’re not alone. The pictures make me feel cozy. I would like to know if any of my fellow thumbsuckers have home pages or have found other sites on this subject because this is the only one I can find.” jennybear2000@yahoo.com


Karen, age 42, from California, has sucker her left thumb since teenage. Her teeth are straight, never needing braces. She has red marks on her thumb. She indulges as she goes to sleep, while working or studying, watching TV, while reading and driving, anywhere, even in public. For her, it's just a habit she can't quit; it feels good filling her with a sense of security. She places a finger over her nose, wasn't breast-fed and used a pacifier. She is not a smoker. She'd like to correspond with other adult thumb suckers and can be reached by clicking here.


Misshmacon from Steamboat Springs, CO, U.S.A. She has a TON of information about her. Her thumb sucking references are in a bold type. Click on her name for her self description.


Pamela, is 28 from Mexico. She's been a thumbsucker all her life. A student presently on the road towards her MBA, she is an avid left thumbsucker and has a large callous to prove it. She's not afraid to indulge in public regardless of the reaction, though not in front of friends and family. She loves collecting photos of adult thumbsuckers and is looking for a pen-pal, wanting more thumbsucking friends to share experiences with. She'd like to exchange photos. On the more normative side, she's into tennis and golf, good restaurants and loves to travel the world. Just e-mail her and get ready for some exuberant exchanges.


Nick, to e-mail click here, Michigan Male age 17 - all my life Right thumb. Needed Braces Permanent callus Red marks on my thumb Thumbnail worn or with marks. In bed, as I go to sleep. All through the night while asleep. While watching TV. While I read. While I drive. While masturbating I spend 8-10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents painted with bitter solution. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. Security. Yes, place over nose. Yes, any blanket with satin edges on it. I was breast fed. I used a pacifier. I am not a smoker. To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. High School Education I am underweight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 2 of 2 . I am bisexual. I am a fetishist. I am single, never been married. No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. I heard about this site from another place on the Internet.


Michelle mark4@spiff.net Include me in Penpal. Illinois Female age 30 TSer - all my life Left thumb. Mildly bucked Thumb looks different It is flatter than the other one In bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. While I drive. With family. I spend 8-10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents teased me. Parents painted with bitter solution. Parents told people. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. Security. No, I don’t place over nose. Associated Ritual. yes, I have a little piece of an old slip that I carry with me all the time. I wasn’t breast fed. I didn’t use a pacifier. I am not a smoker. To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. Interesting experience. My husband and children see me sucking my thumb all the time, and it doesn’t affect them at all. I have never really had anything embarassing happen. College Education I am very overweight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 3 I am heterosexual. I am currently married. He knows that I do it, and it doesn’t bother him at all. No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was excite


From Matt,

Hi. Couldn't enjoy your site more. I think the most intellegent people in the world are thumbsuckers.

I'm 25 years old. I'm a happily married white man with a 16 month old son. I'm 6'4" and my weight is just right. I'm in the military and I love to suck my thumb.

My genetic father thinks I suck my thumb because my mother took my bottle away when I was too young. I think it's a left over habit from when I was about 2 when my parents got a devorce. My teeth are somewhat crooked but it only effects the eating of things like sandwiches and burritos. I've never had braces but would like them. My teeth havn't been getting any more cooked since I was 13. My thumbs are normal and I suck both but prefer the right.

My wife doesn't understand my thumbsucking very well but I think she's coming around now that we have found this site. She has tried to get me to quit by embarrasing me in front of her friends. She always tells me to quit. My parents tried to get me to quit and I helped. We tried everything including the white preservative from the inside of innertubes from my bicycle. Yack!!! Now that I know that it's okay I love doing it even more.

When I was little I put my finger over my nose and my hand on my cheek (my mom thinks the cheek thing was because of the feeling of her breast on my cheek while breastfeeding), but when I was about 8 I quit both and just put my index finger under my nose. Now I love the smell of my index finger right after I wash my hands. It actually makes my mouth water. I think there's something erotic about it but I can't quite put my finger on it. I agree with some of the stuff in the article about erotic thumbsucking but not all of it.

I just wan't to say to all you thumbsuckers, BE FREE AND ENJOY WHAT YOU WANT. For those of you trying to quit, don't give up it's your journey. Please add me to your pen pals list and show my E-mail address Dragonfly_man@hotmail.com. I wan't to hear from as many thumbsuckers as I can. Matt-The Dragonfly man.


From Lianne:

I sleep with mine [blankie] too, always have. When they wear out, I replace it with another, preferably one with satin on the edge. Recently I travelled Europe for several months and couldn't bear the thought of being without my blanky, but had no room in the pack for the whole thing. I cut off a strip about 2"x7" and took it along. I was teased a bit by fellow travellers, but it was all worth it. I no longer use the whole blanky, just the strip I cut off.

I really appreciate that you have the courage to host this site. I always felt like I was one of a very small number of people and that I lacked the will-power to stop, or that I was psychologically ill. Now from reading information on this site I realize that there are many factors that go into the as they say "Non-nutritive digital sucking". I also noticed that there are many different types of assocoated habits that go along with this malaise. My particular way of doing this is to use rayon or silk ( like the inside of some jackets) and brush it against my face/skin while sucking my right index finger. Over time this has become a psuedo-sexual association and triggers the desire to masterbate. I have tried repetedly to stop but as I am sure you know it is difficult. I'm glad I had time to share some info please email with updates or any other usefull information you think could be of help.


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Stephanie, Canada Female age 22 - all my life Left thumb. Straight, never with braces Permanent callus Thumbnail worn or with marks. Thumb looks different ... A bit thinner than my other thumb but only noticeable to me. In bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. With family. I spend more than 10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents teased me. Parents told people. Yes, I was abused. I was abandoned by my father, my mother drank and hit me sometimes but mostly yelled. I didn’t spend alot of time at home if I could help it. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. Security. Yes, place over nose. Associated Ritual. I pull the fuzzy stuff out of comforters and smell it and pull it apart. I hold it under my nose. I wasn’t breast fed. I didn’t use a pacifier. I am a smoker. I have other addictions smoking I have family members with addictions smoking., drinking, drugs To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers.

My boy friend’s sister walked by his room when I was sleeping in there and saw my thumb in my mouth and jolted me out of sleep yelling in my face “what the hell are you doing?” I covered up by telling her that I was dreaming that I was sucking my thumb. I lied because she would have told everyone we knew, my boyfriend knew already. That was 4 or 5 years ago and we are married now and she’s never mentioned it again, I think she believed me about the dream.

I am so happy to find this site. I always felt bad about myself when I was younger I knew 2 other people that sucked their thumb and I’ve heard of others, but that was as a kid. I thought those people had quit and I was the only one. I cried when I found this site it makes me feel like I’m not a freak. Thank You!! Hello I am so happy I have found all of you!

It was so strange that it has never occured to me to search thumb sucking before. I thought of it last night in bed while I was of course, sucking my thumb! I found you first thing this morning and have been at this site all day. I feel so happy and free. Now that I know there are so many people just like me when I thought I was alone. I want to ask everyone I know if they suck, I would love to find out someone I know does it too.

I have decided to come out of the closet on my regular chat lines, just to see what the reaction of people will be. Only 2 people in my life know my BIG SECRET but others in my family suspect it because I did it as a child. I hate it when you are watching T.V. and you see someone sucking and everyone in the room looks at you with a smirk on their face. Does this happen to anyone else? Thank You soooo much! High School Education I am overweight. White Race I am 1 of 3 I am heterosexual. I am currently married. My husband has always known since we started dating as teenagers. He doesn’t think anything of it. But he really hates it when I talk with my thumb in my mouth! No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was ask jeeves


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Melissa, New York upstate Female age 20 - all my life Both thumbs. Needed Braces Thumbnail worn or with marks. Thumb looks different Nail has ridges and grows faster. In bed, as I go to sleep. All through the night while asleep. While watching TV. While I read. While I drive. With friends. When making love While masturbating I spend more than 10 hours tsing each day. No, I was not abused. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. Security. It’s an addiction for me. Yes, place over nose. I pull my pillow or sheets. My dad says that when I was a baby I used to sleep on him and pull his chest hair while I slept, I think this is why I pull at my pillow. I like cold pillows the best. I was breast fed. I used a pacifier. I am not a smoker. I have other addictions EATING I have family members with addictions Smoking, drinking, eating I have known other adult thumb suckers. A friend of m ine caught me doing it and confessed that he did it too. I remember being caught in kindergarten sucking my thumb and I remember denying it and feeling very bad, like there was something wrong with me. I never knew that there were others. I thought I was a freak. Thank you for this site. College Education I am very overweight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 2 I am homosexual. I am single, never been married. At first I hid it from her, then I just started doing it and she didn’t think anything of it. She thinks it’s cute The Search Engine I used was Webcrawler


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Emily, Female age 20 all my life Right thumb. Needed Braces Red marks on my thumb Constant dry skin In bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. With friends. With family. When making love I spend 8-10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. No, I was not abused. Just a habit I can't quit. It feels good. Security. No, I don't place over nose. I have had many blankets because my mother throws them away when she finds them. I like to smell the blanket while I suck my thumb.I was breast fed. I am a former smoker. I don't have other addictions To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. College Education I am just right in weight. White Race First of two girlsI am heterosexual. I am single, never been married. Partners learn to deal with the fact that I constantly like to suck my thumb when I can. No, thumb sucking doesn't make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was Altavista


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Jennifer Include me in Penpal. Colorado Female age 26 - all my life Right thumb. Had braces, but my teeth are crooked again. Permanent callus Thumbnail worn or with marks. Thumb looks different my thumb bends forward more than the other one and is always chapped in bed, as I go to sleep. All through the night while asleep. While watching TV. While I read. With family. While masturbating I spend 8-10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents teased me. No, I was not abused. Just a habit I can’t quit. it feels good. Security. it’s an addiction for me. Yes, place over nose. I like to rub my nose with my index finger I was breast fed. I don’t have other addictions though, both my parents are smokers To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. My father hated it the most, when I was a child,especially When I was a teenager, he would shoot me dirty looks and gesture to me to take it out of my mouth, if he knew I still did it today he surely would be upset. I was so happy to find out there was a webpage dedicated to this often embarrassing but highly gratifying habit. it’s nice to know I’m not the only adult in this world who likes to indulge, it puts me at ease and I don’t feel as ashamed anymore. High School Education I am underweight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 2 I am heterosexual. I am currently married. my husband doesn’t have a problem with my thumbsucking No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was yahoo


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Steve Western Europe Male age 33 - all my life Left thumb. Straight, never with braces Thumb looks different in bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. Only when alone. While masturbating I spend 2-3 hours tsing each day. Parents didn’t care. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. No, I don’t place over nose. I use a blanket, my pajama. I ’ve been sucking more since I quit smoking 12 years ago-but it’s healthier.I never totally quit this, but I 've been sucking more since I left smoking because it was a good substitute (I would have eaten too much otherwise). I wasn’t breast fed. I used a pacifier. I am a former smoker. I don’t have other addictions To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. I told it once to my former girlfriend after she took her thumb once in her mouth. She didn’t say anything College Education I am just right in weight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 2 I am bisexual. Fetish Description I am single, never been married. Yes, thumb sucking makes it difficult to have a relationship. I heard about this site from a search engine, alta vista.


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Nicky England Female age 25 - all my life Right thumb. Mildly bucked Thumbnail worn or with marks. in bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. With friends. With family. Anywhere, even in Public. I spend 4-7 hours tsing each day. Parents teased me. Parents told people. No, I was not abused. Just a habit I can’t quit. it feels good. it’s an addiction for me. Yes, place over nose. I like to stroke soft cotton, especially the seams of tee-shirts, etc. I was breast fed. I am not a smoker. I don’t have other addictions I don’t have family members with addictions I have known other adult thumb suckers. close friendships - friends see me doing it and own up its very comforting to find this website as I can often feel isolated and alienated by my habit. Advanced degree beyond college. I am just right in weight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 2 of 2 I am heterosexual. I am single, never been married. My last boyfriend didn’t mind at all, except that I would often rather suck my thumb than kiss him so he would have to pull it out which I often resisted. It's hard for non-thumb suckers to appreciate how important it is. If I start a new relationship I may feel slightly uncomfortable t.sucking in front of the guy at first but it wont stop me doing it. I would hope he would understand. if a guy objected to it, I would probably object to him Thumb sucking is a vital part of me. No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was dogpile.

I am so glad to have found your site! Even though I know enough people who still do it to feel there must be MiLLiONS out there, its great to hear these comrades speaking out. I used to really stress about my habit, particularly age 10 - 16 When I felt so presured to stop and 'grow up'. Now I’m 25, and supposed to be 'grown up' (very confusing isn't it) and yes, I suck my (right -never left - tastes wrong and salty!) thumb as much as I ever did.

My best friends stopped sucking their thumbs when they were about 15 and had to wear braces, which apparently made it impossible and/or uncomfortable. But luckily my teeth were not affected (must be the angle!) soI had no reason to stop.

When I was about 17 my front top teeth started to ache a bit and I felt they were moving out slightly. Amazingly I found a wonderful dentist who I confided in and he said they looked fine. He said his 24 yr old sister still sucked her's which made me feel much better! Although my teeth have moved slightly, I think they have stopped now and they look OK.

What must it be like to be a boy thumbsucker? I feel it is slightly more socially acceptable for girls and really feel for all you guys out there. manhood and all that stupid stuff. I know that one of my male friends sucks his thumb, as I have seen him doing it out of the corner of my eye. But is obviously embarrased, even though I do it publically and in front of him all the time. It's a shame. I am sure my parents are pretty appauled that I still suck, but they never mention it, thank god. I do not smoke or drink (never have done either) and consider t.sucking a much more favorable and less unsociable habit. Why is it considered so unacceptable??

I do not find it at all sexual or erotic... I feel like my thumb is my best friend, although Ithere are still many public situations where I would feel uncomfortable sucking it. Will we ever stop? Do 'old' people suck their thumbs too, or were they mostly forced to stop as it was even more taboo when they were young.? Well, calling any I deas and banter. if you live in or around Brighton, England, I am new to the area could do with someone to explore and adventure with. have a great life out there and KEEP SUCKING!


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CJ, Ohio Female age 29 TSer - all my life Left thumb. Straight, never with braces No affect on thumb. in bed, as I go to sleep. Only when alone. I spend 1 to 2 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents painted with bitter solution. it feels good. Security. No, I don’t place over nose. I have a blanket that I have to smell while sucking. I wasn’t breast fed. I didn’t use a pacifier. I am a former smoker. I don’t have other addictions To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. My fiancee caught me one night after he had gotten out of the shower I had fallen asleep and had it in. I quickly removed it. He acted like he didn’t see anything My 2 children do not even know High School Education I am just right in weight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 4 I am heterosexual. I am currently divorced. Thumbsucking did not play a role in the divorce. No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was yahoo


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Carrie, MI female age 23 all my life Right thumb. Mildly bucked Thumbnail worn or with marks. The way my thumb looks different is... slightly thinner in bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. Only when alone. When making love While masturbating I spend 4-7 hours tsing each day. Parents painted with bitter solution. Just a habit I can’t quit. It feels good. Yes, place over nose. . pillow I wasn't breast fed. I am not a smoker. I don't have other addictions. I don't have family members with addictions. To my knowledge,I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. College Education I am just right in weight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 2 of 2 I am heterosexual. I am single, never been married. I keep it a secret. No, thumb sucking doesn't make it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was aj.com


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Michael, texas Male 44 - all my life Left thumb. The fingers I suck are Crooked Thumbnail worn or with marks. in bed, as I go to sleep. While watching TV. While I read. while Idrive. While masturbating I spend 8-10 hours tsing each day. Parents scolded. Parents painted with bitter solution. it feels good. Yes, place over nose. I wasn’t breast fed. I used a pacifier. I am not a smoker. I have other addictions, eating.I don’t have family members with addictions. To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. I am a gay male and the lover had just moved in with me. Te first morning he was awake before me. H did not know what to think at first but said it was ok after he thought about it.I started doing it while we were making love and it was something he really got into and started treating me like a little boy. High School Education I am overweight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 4 of 4 I am homosexual. I am a fetishist. Fetish Description feet,boots,high heels, spanking, I am not married because I am gay and can not get married. No, thumb sucking doesn’t make it difficult to have a relationship. I heard about this site from another place on the Internet.


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Ronald, europe Male age 42 - all my life Right thumb. Needed Braces Red marks on my thumb in bed, as I go to sleep. I spend 1 to 2 hours tsing each day. Parents teased me. Parents understood. No, I was not abused. it feels good. Yes, place over nose. I wasn’t breast fed. I used a pacifier. I am not a smoker. I have other addictions,Wearing diapers . I was long time wetting my pants and bed even soiling till 16. Then I started again at 26 during day time . night time I never was really dry. I like diapers I feel they are comfortable. I like to use a pacifer also but in public it is very strange and I fear the reactions of the others. To my knowledge, I have not known other adult thumbsuckers. My girl friend is very upset when she catches me sucking on my thumb. She noticed it. When I sucked so heavily during my sleep that she waked up. She cannot or will not understand it . High School Education I am just right in weight. White Race Siblings and order of birth 1 of 3 I am heterosexual. Fetish DescriptionI would like to be treated like a baby Yes, thumb sucking makes it difficult to have a relationship. The Search Engine I used was Alta Vista

My name is Mitch and I am an adult gay man who is looking to meet other gay men who suck their thumbs.


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hi... my name is Rob, i'm 24 and I have just come accross your fabulous site!! I live in London and am so relieved to know i am not alone in my habit!! Im an actor/musician, and am proud to be a Thumsucker. I have 2 sucky sheets that I just cannot be without!! Id be glad to hear from you and anyone else on the subject of Tsing... email me...I promise ill be back at this site...!!!


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